Perhaps that is why desire causes men calamity. By identifying with our desires and taking them too seriously, we not only increase our susceptibility to disappointment, we actually create a climate inhospitable to the free and easy fulfillment of those desires.

Tom Robbins
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In the same way that a glass of water can be very refreshing when it is served to us cold, the disappointment of not getting what we desire can be a wonderful clarifying experience. Our disappointment with not getting what we desire often teaches us exactly what is wrong with our desires. Desire is a good thing, but when we make it the center of our lives, we become very vulnerable to its shortcomings.

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